The Coutdown Begins

So I am officially planning for my dream wedding. I feel the Bridezilla coming out already. I have done a little planing already but know it the real deal making deposits structuring the whole event. I thought my groom would just pay for it and show up but I don't think it is going to be that easy. I want what I want and I can admit I am a control freak when it comes to planning events. Although I have two event planners for my special day.

My journey is just beginning and I now I  will be happy with the end. I will be posting regularly I promise!

So the battle of the sexes Saturday Stresses begins.
What will the colors be? hmm let's see......I want my theme to be a Hollywood premier with a red carpet entrance. The colors Black, purple and red. I am working to convince the groom( I know right). What happen to just choosing the food? I know it's his wedding too but I want what I want. i am a little BRAT!. I gave him food and cake and music so that's a compromise.Right?

Working Mama

I am starting to feel the pressure of my upcoming wedding. Haven't quite figured out exactly what I want. My one wish would be to get my favorite Event Planner David Tutera! I love all his work but can't afford it by any means (girl can dream can't she).

I am feeling the pressure of my job and have decided to that life is way more important than a job. I haven't got far with the Happiness Project Book but my inspiration board is working. I am thankful I received a raise at my job, I am thankful for those cool purple sneakers I really wanted and I am thankful for my vacation to Mexico coming soon. I am thankful for my little blog hobby. I also want to say thank you to my readers!

Baby Mama Love

Haven't had much time for my blog but I realized this is a stress relief for myself. I have my glass of wine and ready for some blog love. On a side note my Baby Daddy is  really annoying me today. I think I diagnosed what my problem is wedding presure or PMS!

So here's my question to my fellow real women out there... Why do you think women hate on each other so much?  We'll here's my answer ladies I think that women only hate on each other because they have what you want or what you want to achieve. In high school I often found myself not liked by many. I still wonder why they didn't like me. Oh yea I remember why they didn't like me I was the cheerleader that dated the star player, homecoming queen, vice-president, yearbook staff.....yea I know if i wasn't me I hate me too. No let's be real I was ambitious what I wanted I went after.

My response was hey don't hate me cause your not me! If you want something go after it, nobody  is stopping you. If you see a lady with fly pair of shoes, purse or her hair is looking fly tell her! I don't hate! Do you and I am going to do me. You don't have to like me or what I do, but respect me!

Life to Short to be Miserable

Dear Baby Mama's,

I hope someone is reading that could use the advice or knows somebody who can. So here's today's  baby mama dish.

 So here's  the situation,  this baby mama makes the money in the house bringing home close to 100K a year. Her baby daddy doesn't have a job nor does he help cook, clean, or watch the kids.He cheats on her , he verbally abuses her, and spends money on silly things like  rims. In some circumstances I think it's alright for a man to stay home if he is helping out with the household duties but in the situation this is a OH NO girlfriend. If I was you I would run far away from this man! I understand you have a child with this man but you can do better. If you are planning on marrying this man just remember he can get alimony from you and you might be paying for this dumb mistake for a long time. Get grip girlfriend!!!!

 Please ladies love yourself first beforea man!

Can't Teach a Old Dog New Tricks

Everyone has a choice in life it is your own fault you’re in the situation your in. If your man leaves you for another women every time he is doing good then he is a no good brother and you don’t need him anyway. Please lead with your brain and not your heart in this situation.Do not let him come home when he get's out of jail or his other baby mama has kicked him out. Be strong and let the dog go!

I have seen to many women let stray dogs in there house because they have nowhere else to go. Tell them to find a shelter! I have seen many mature women 50+ letting this fly.Seeing this as a young adult, has only made me stronger and I know what I will and will not put up with. Like the old saying goes, “A man will only do to you what you let him”!

Stay Strong Ladies and I know it hurts but there is bigger and better out there.

Baby Mama Reports Live

Baby Mama Reports Live from the wedding waiting to be a disaster. Now I know women we have that special gift that is called a women’s intuition. As women, we know when something is not right with our man. We often try not to listen to that feeling because we do not want to believe it is true. I know sometimes were wrong but it is rare. If the signs are, there that something is wrong with your man then 9 out of 10 times, there is.

So here is the dish on Baby Mama Drama just in. Soon to be Husband refuses to give is fiancé a guest list for his side of the family. I sometimes wonder is it just me or is this person desperate. Listen up ladies these are the signs that your so called man doesn’t want to marry YOU!!!!! With two months before your wedding these are some definete signs of I don’t want to marry you. If your man has not talked to his mother, if your man has not went to a tux fitting or his groomsman havent’t even been notified that there in the wedding, if your man refuses to give you a guest list of his family… These are all signs he does not want to marry you!!! Like come on you cannot be that naive.

We will go luck Baby Mama Drama of this week.


XOXOXO

What would you do if your man?

What would you do if know if you found out that your friend's soon to be husband has a child with someone elese? Do you tell the firend?

No matter what the messager always gets killed as in the episode of Real Housewifes of New York. I would suggest maybe not tell her directly because her first reaction will be to hate you. Maybe send her anynomous email or text message. For people that didnt know you can send text messages from an email. Just setup a fake email and there you go. You are only protecting your firendship with her. Also if her man  finds out that you told her he will try to turn the tables and say that you just dont like him and then your friend won't be your friend. Yea I know this sounds crazy but some women hold on for dear life to the wrong man.