Wednesday, April 28, 2010

I am not Superwoman

Why is it that men want women to cook, raise the kids, work fifty hours a week, clean up after the kids and him and still keep it hot and steamy in the bedroom. I don't know why they have such high expectations when all there expected to do is moe the lawn and pay the house bills.

I am tired just like you are tired men. I mean I do work fifty hours a week just like you and you ! You cant pick up a dish. If I have to pay bills also then you need to take part in the household chores. Now do not get me wrong when I was a stay at home mom I did not mind cleaning the house and organizing the bills, cooking and taking care of our child. I am not your super woman. I am strong, talented, intelligent, unique, a great mother and friend. However, all things must be treated equal.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Hello Blog World

Baby Mama to Wife.... becoming a Baby Mama  was not in my plans nor was it my goal to even have any children.I have always said that I wanted the three bedroom house with the two car garage with the nice expensive car parked inside (the whole package). An overall independent women with a fabulous career. A baby was not in my plans or was a husband. We'll everything dosen't always work out how you want it to be. I have no complaints now put let me tell  you it hasn't been an easy road to get here.  I want to be honest and tell women my reality story of how I went from Baby Mama to soon to be Wife. Many woman dream of the Fairytale ending. Not me I just wanted to be happy and if those other things came in to my life, I would be grateful. I see a lot of women not repspecting themselves and letting men get away with just about everything. It's time to put your man in check or check yourself if need be so you can go from Baby Mama to Wife. No I am not saying all this just because I am soon to be married. I just thought that I could right down my thoughts and give the real deal to those that want to know. So here I am on a weekday night starting a Blog.... Some of you may hate what I have to say just click the x at the top of the screen. So set back and enjoy the show.